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There are many things that women wish that guys knew, but will never
tell them. The problem is that if the girl has to tell the guy, it will
ruin the relationship. For guys, this seems like an impossible position
– “she knows what she wants, but won’t tell me.” Here are the top ten
things that women wish guys knew.
1. Lead – Women in
Florida won’t tell men that they want them to lead, because
just having to say it means that the guy does not lead. A leader does
not need permission; they take the risk and just do it.
2. Ask her advice – This may seem contradictory to number 1, but it
is not. Women want men to lead, but they want to be part of their lives
and they want to be respected. The best way that to accomplish both of
these is for the guy to decide what they want to do, tell her, then ask
for her opinion.
3. Women choose guys on how they make them feel. Any guy who can make
a girl feel appreciated, protected and cherished is on his way to
winning her heart.
4. Make her laugh! Don’t take life too seriously. It can be tough
being a woman. There are many roles to play – daughter, sister, wife and
many goals to meet - good-looking, thin, coordinated clothing, etc. Give
her a break! If a guy can show her that she does not have to be perfect
to be accepted, he will be an unusual guy and she will love him for it.
5. Hold the door – Its something that women’s upbringing may tell
them is not needed – after all she is independent, but women will
usually like it anyway. Guys do not have to knock her down to get to the
door first every time, but getting in the habit of opening doors when he
can is a good thing.
6. Never start a conversation with an apology – “Excuse me…”, “Sorry
to bother you…”. She may think the guy is polite, but he is violating
rule number 1.
7. If a guy is in a loving relationship, hold hands! It shows that he
cares for her and that he is not afraid of showing it in front of
others. She will never tell him, but if he does it, he will have a
happier life.
8. Call Her!! After every date, call her within a few days. Email,
voicemail and text messaging do not count. Calling her as soon as he
gets back to the apartment may be too soon, but any time later will be
OK.
9. Even if she asks for the absolute truth, be careful about
criticizing her appearance. If a guy in Florida builds a fence around the back yard
and asks a woman, “What do you think?” he does not want her to check the
plumb on every post and let him know how he might improve his fence
building! He wants her to say that it looks good! Same with her
appearance. Guys, be very careful of how you answer!
10. Be passionate about something – in addition to her. This goes
back to leadership. Men should have a sense of what they want to
accomplish and how they are going to do it. Share your dreams and plans
with her. This is one area where it is OK for guys to talk about
something at some length. Even if she does not share his dream, she will
respect him for having one.
It is one of the problems in dating, that there are things that most
women in Florida want and expect in a man that not all men understand. The rules of
dating and behavior are being constantly rewritten and can seem
confusing. The rules above have withstood the test of time and are as
valid today as they were 200 years ago.
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